mobify seemed to do the trick but there free service would only make the first page mobile friendly and would take you to the actual page. for the whole site you need to buy the subscription which wasnt what I hoped for. also a big draw back was that you were then using there URL.
a few services would let you use your very own m.yoursite.com URL but they were all with if you have access to the backend or server side glitch.
so what I did was I used mobify mobile detection script and redirected it to a google reader page view. it worked.
Now I tried to rather using google reader how about simply just accessing the feed? I mean that sure would be faster than the actuall site and should be faster to load and lower on size.
special thanks to shoaib safdar for letting me experiment on his blog. his mobile friednly version can be viewed at http://www.feedm8.com/pensive